
Where do we not have violence in our country. We have it in the state assemblies, the central assemblies, we have it in the streets, we have it in each house & we have it in most of our movies.
But not everything is filmed. Film them and see them, it looks horrendous. These Pictures and videos will be repulsive. Is Ambedkar law college the only college to have such violent clashes. No. I've seen it happening near my own college, when my fellow students fought with their seniors ( or the other way round ? ). It happened again with my juniors fighting their juniors !
Someone will be injured when tempers fray.
I have been violent with my neighbours' children ( when i was a child, mind it ). I have hit a boy's leg with a stick when i was provoked. We have formed gangs and thrown stones at each other. Even big men would not have dared to stand on the terrace where i was standing as a kid. Such was the influx of fist-sized-stones !! As children its different. You're still not civilised enough, u dont understand how painful 'pain' is. I cant even imagine how brutual ive been & how brutal my next-door-friends were at that time.
Ofcourse yes, honestly, there are chances that it could have happened to us in belfast. Fist-fights with ppl who gave us a stray passing comment. Tempers frayed. We could have ended with blows if they came back at the ruckus i created in retaliation. Not sure. Its all animal behavior. Something provokes, either deliberately or accidentally and fights ensue. But you analyze them all again, look and think over what you have done and you definitely feel that it was not for good.
In a fit of anger, we can hurt someone very easily. But god forbid, if that happens to be very serious, then there is repent in our lives forever. Is that what we want ? Let's learn from whatever has happened in the past days and learn that its time we learned to calm ourselves. Time to learn to be friends with ppl around us, time we learnt to be non-violent in our approaches.
The man who was hurt near the law college gates, who was attacked as though he was some poisonous serpent which had to be immobilised - he had pain that day, hospitalised. But the ppl who hurt him, they are the ones who will have the same pain for the next couple of days till they are apprehended by the police. That was physical, this will be mental. & the wise know that both are equally painful.
Next time you see kids fighting, separate them, talk to them lovingly. Get them to be friends, have ice-breaker sessions with them. Play with them for sometime && then.......leave them together. I can assure you - they will never fight again and will even stop others from fighting.
This is what we need. We need to curb this violent nature in our sub-conscious minds even as we are kids.
Speaking about how violent we were as children, you wont believe that we patched up later and were good friends for a long long time. Innocent kids that we were !
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